Being Aware instead of Being Alert

Just got this Facebook memory of January 31st 2021 and thought this experience should be in my blog too. It is about lessons learned and the incredible support of a fantastic horse 💞

 Being aware instead of being alert

For me this awareness is about sensing everything while being deaf. And even in this sensing I had to find nuances, the right amount of relaxed awareness. Unfortunately I had to learn it the hard way 😢

With my deafness another even worse handicap showed up, hyperacusis. Sounds hurt, hurted that much that my ears, head and even my total body gave me pain signals. Even that much I had to stay out of the outside world and rest in stillness, sometimes for 3- 5 days before the pain left again. My body being in supreme state of alertness all te time. The only way out of this pain at first was to avoid all those sounds like cutlery and pans, traffic, iron gates and blacksmiths. Starting to build sound tolerance again by wearing earplugs outside. Slowly building the exposure to sound outside with my horse. 

The acoustics of nature are so soft and healing. Being in that state of body alertness my horse noticed danger and had a hard time in relaxing in riding. As the years went by my body refound a new balance as my cochlear implant brought some relaxation already to my brains. My brains noticing sounds earlier and not in the very minute, like touching electric wire, was very helpful. 

Feldenkrais lessons back then and now, and a great horse teaching me the details of awareness, have given me so much. The tiniest sensations, changes in my body or my horses body, give so much information. A lovely informative, but warning language that I understand now. How clever our bodies are, if you do listen. How it can build from that tiny little sensing like a tickle into itching, into pain at certain spot into your whole body. From being aware to being alert, from being in tension to being in pain all the time. 

Over the years I have learned to accept, let go and relax into these sensations, knowing it will pass. Learned a lot and Feldenkrais lessons helped me find new dimensions of awareness. My horses relaxation and body telling me every time which state we are in. Wera always takes care of me, if I ride alone or with others. She 'tells' me everything I need to know including what my ears can't hear and my own body is not aware off. A very special gift 💝

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